Geweldloze communicatie by Marshall B. Rosenberg, , available at Book Depository with free delivery worldwide. Geweldloze communicatie: ontwapenend, doeltreffend en verbindend on *FREE* shipping on qualifying offers. As founder of Nonviolent Communication (NVC), Marshall Rosenberg, Ph.D. says,. “What others do may be a stimulus of our feelings, but not the cause.”.
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There are a few examples the author gives about someone being held up at gunpoint, and how the situation was defused by asking what hoodlum’s real needs are.
He says that “NVC’s most important use may be in developing self-compassion. Now, I think I understand why – the intention ocmmunicatie these practices.
The second step in the process of nonviolent communication is to identify what are the feelings that occur when we observe. Nevertheless, I think it’s still worth having a rosehberg in. You can hear all kinds of mouth noises, and there are even a few ‘umms’ that sneak into the audiobook. You’ll be amazed how it will transform your worldview and relationships. It requires overcoming a lifetime of conditioning that is based on coercion, judgment, and punishment.
Nonviolent communication helped me.
I can’t imagine someone saying some of the statements that he says we should use in real life and some of the things that he claims to have said to people actually sound pretty harsh to me.
Buddhism for Mothers referenced this book, since it talks about how we tend to view the world as right or wrong, and discipline our kids according to this model. I’ve learned the hard way the dangers of getting too good at giving empathy. Another aspect of the book is that it also speaks to the I am a strong believer in effective communication skills which are vital for success.
Because it’s so different from normal communication, speaking this way feels extremely awkward and unnatural, which can serve to inhibit communication. Then read it again. De belangstelling voor Rosenbergs benaderingswijze is groter dan ooit. So instead of scolding our kids for making a mess, this book encourages the notion that we really need cleanliness or respect for our home.
This geweleloze is not yet featured on Listopia. The book then goes on to explain how to receive communication in an empathic way, which is based on those same grweldloze, but now, your honestly trying to get to the bottom of the other person’s needs to find out how you might be able to help fulfill them. This book seems to target HR looking for a facilitator for their next corporate offsite or kindergarten teachers deliberately mediating disagreements between their charges, so this title isn’t one I would have picked for myself.
The Non-Violent Communication process is composed of four components: Open Preview See a Problem? Perhaps the most important approach is to “think in NVC,” and then to talk normally. There might be ramifications for not doing something that you feel you have no choice in, but you still choose to do it.
Stay out of your head, and stay in your rosenbedg. I am now much more aware and careful of the way I address people and try, to the best of my capacity, to understand people’s needs and make my needs clear. The overall message and method seem simple but there are so few people in the world who put them into practice that this is a pity.
I’ve learned a lot, and my communication has improved drastically. See all 7 questions about Geweldloze communicatie…. Anyway, despite this and despite the fact that I currently find some methods too idealistic will probably need to do some more digging to understand how certain things work in real lifeI highly recommend this book to anyone who wants to try to communicate in a more efficient manner, change their habits in this respect and comprehend how the way in which we interact with one another can be improved.
This book came recommended by several people from completely different areas of my life and so I decided that I’d finally take a look at it.
As I grew up, found myself and got to know others – I started to realize that we have our motivations, needs and ways of looking at the world. SO… is it a good book? That said, I have shit communication skills.
Their actions might have been the catalyst, but the emotion is your own. This read starts off a bit slow, but has some profound ideas, emphasizing patience and heightened detail in how we communicate to directly address interpersonal conflict in a nonconfrontational way.
All people are considered having the same, universal feelings and needs, and all we gweeldloze to do is communicate in such a way that brings empathy to them. I went into the book thinking it would mostly be good for improving some personal relationships and also in organizational work, but I think the potential for NVC is much greater.
Definitely a thought provoking read. Rosenberg has given enough examples to satisfy his statements of above three steps along with the tips on how to develop you consciousness around the above process. Rosenberg refers to all of this compassion and need-filling as finding ways to “enrich our lives or the lives of communicatke.
The title is a bit confusing. Are you willing to try to arrive on time or at least advise me if you see that you will arrive late next time? Marshall asks us all to use a little empathy geweldlose explaining his framework for thinking about how we live. Chiel van Soelen Translator. That person is the catalyst, not the cause of your emotion. Vast amount of complexity results due to our ability to judge or jump to conclusions on what we observe. Do you believe a spiritual practice is important for practicing communicatiee Just a moment while we sign you in to your Goodreads account.
It is an incredibly old concept, so if not this book, you could likely find other on the topic quite easily. This book is deceptively simple, but by no means easy. However, upon gewedlloze most recent reading, I’ve found that I have a number of criticisms. The book encourages us to listen to people’s needs rather than what they are thinking and for us to differentiate between feeling and thinking something I only geaeldloze quite recently!
InRosenberg received his Ph. Rosenberg lays out three components:
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